In a typical disaster or crisis situation, there are many pressures on families. The adults have to deal with a number of external issues that put the family at risk, such as finding food, water, medicine and shelter or avoiding danger whether that be from natural or human sources. Even in less dangerous situations, there are still plenty of things on a parent’s mind such as insurance claims, government forms to fill out, or even how to get to work with roads and transit interrupted. With all of this swirling around them it is easy for a parent to simply want their children to do what they are told and be on their best behavior until the crisis has passed. However, things are not quite so simple. Depending on the age of the child, they will respond to the heightened amount of stress in a number of ways that can be misinterpreted by parents as acting up, being immature or even rebellion. Given the increased amount of stress the parent is under as well, it is temping to give a harsh rebuke or punishment when what the child needs most is encouragement and understanding. Parents in the midst of crisis need to be reminded that they are their child’s best defense against the lasting psychological effects of trauma and given helpful hints on how to allay their child’s fears and restore peace to their shaken world.
During the recent earthquake in Christchurch, New Zealand and the uprisings in the Middle East, OperationSAFE has been using social media such as facebook and twitter to inform parents how to protect their children from trauma. Volunteers have translated articles and tweets into Arabic such as Emotional Care for Children arabic which have been posted to hashtags such as #libya, #egypt, #tunisia, and #bahrain which have then been relayed through many sites in the Middle East reporting on the uprisings. Our hope is that this information can be spread widely through troubled regions where children are being exposed to violence and uncertainty about the future. Likewise we have been posting to #eqnz, the Christchurch Quake hashtag, at intervals throughout the day 21 tips for parents in short easily remembered pieces of advice such as,
10) Tips for Parents! Calmly provide factual information about the recent disaster to your children http://bit.ly/bGneSz #eqnz #opsafe
19) Tips for Parents! Admit your concerns children, but stress your ability to cope. http://bit.ly/bGneSz #eqnz #opsafe
While we would hope that everyone could read and remember how to protect their children from trauma before a crisis, of course many do not. So these small reminders with links back to further information can be vital. These tips and links have once again been picked up and spread by other sites reporting on the quake exposing more parents to the information they need in the time of crisis as well as being “liked”, “shared” and “RT’d” but thousands of supporters worldwide on Facebook and Twitter who are keeping the children in these areas of crisis in their thoughts and prayers.











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